Dignityinruin (he/him) has been practicing BDSM and power exchange relationships in some form since 2008, with extended breaks for an existential crisis or two. He has been consistently involved in the BDSM community since 2018. During one of those existential crises, he was a student of Jewish law and mysticism. Dignityinruin is a critical theorist and published academic researcher who has lectured at Australian universities in gender and sexuality studies – His proudest achievement is being his owner’s property.